Perhaps you have worked on multiplication facts for years. You have used flashcards, counted out jelly beans and M&Ms, drawn figures in the sand, and made up songs for those multiplication tables, but the facts just aren’t sticking.
Sometimes, children really struggle to remember information if they are not able to find meaning in it or to link it to background knowledge.
Facts seem isolated and unrelated, slipping away like grains of sand.
Even after regular practice and constant rehearsal, your child may score lower than you expect on tests.
Sometimes memory problems translate to other areas of life. Your child may often forget what you’ve told him to do. You may feel like a nag, asking your child over and over to do things, but then realizing your child simply forgot what you said.
Some children are great at reading comprehension, but they cannot spell. It may be easy for your child to make sense of a story that includes characters and a meaningful plot, but recalling a sequence of letters could be very challenging.
Maybe your child learns multiplication slowly and has to refer to the laminated facts table on his desk, but he may excel in other areas, like art or music, in which learning is more visual and kinesthetic.
Children have different learning styles. For many children, it can be hard to make learning meaningful and therefore memorable. A visual or kinesthetic learner will appreciate active learning to aide in the encoding of new information.
Improving memory for learning may require a more creative approach for some children than for others.
What do challenges with Memory For Learning look like?
- Having trouble with spelling words?
- Forgetting multiplication facts?
- Remembering the night before but forgetting everything on the test?
- Working very hard academically but not retaining information?
- Studying diligently but testing poorly on standardized assessments?
- Seeming to learn more slowly than other children despite other strengths?
- Performing great on science projects but forgetting facts for a test?
- Better at learning when you show her but struggling with what you tell her?
Why is Memory For Learning happening?
If a child has a problem remembering information learned in school, it could be related to processing speed or learning styles.
- Processing speed refers to how quickly an individual processes information. If someone processes slowly, it takes longer to learn new information and longer to make connections between new information and existing knowledge. Perhaps your child is just unable to learn and retain information at the rate at which it is presented in school.
Learning styles refers to the modality by which a child is likely to best understand and remember information.
- Auditory Learners: Some children learn by hearing information. You might hear the child say, “I hear you” when they understand something. These children are auditory learners.
- Kinesthetic Learners: Others learn by watching something and then trying it themselves. They learn best when they are moving and doing. You might hear an adult or older child say, “that’s hard for me to get my hands around” or “let me try to grasp that.” We call these learners active or kinesthetic learners.
- Visual Learners: Some children learn from pictures and solve visual puzzles with ease.They learn just fine if they see the problem on paper. They might be heard describing their ‘aha moments’ like this, ‘Oh, now I see!’ or “I can picture that.” Kids who learn like this are called visual learners.
Challenges with memory could have to do with the teaching style or modality and the child’s ability to make meaning of the information. When we think about learning challenges, we find that some learners have a deficit in a particular mode of learning. One way to help your child is to ensure that he or she is getting instruction in the preferred learning style.
How can I manage Memory For Learning at home?
One reason for your child’s challenges could be difficulty converting short-term memory to long-term memory and storage. A child who can cram information and retain it very briefly; perhaps even long enough for that weekly spelling test, but who then fails to actually retain the information later could be struggling with long-term memory and storage.
Short-term memory is where we store information as we learn it. Then, by practicing and rehearsing in the short-term, we are working to move information to long-term memory. In order to remember information long term, we need to make meaning of it.
Cramming may not work for many children. Taking the information in too fast with too little practice may lead to immediate availability but not to the proper storage of the information in the long-term. Studying over a longer period, a bit each day, can really help some children and adults to retain more information. In psychology, we call this ‘mass practice’ vs. ‘distributed practice.’
The research is clear. Distributed practice (a little at a time) is far superior to mass practice (‘cramming’). The ultimate goal is to get the important information into long-term memory so that it becomes part of the knowledge base. When we store information in long-term memory, we can then build on it with new knowledge and learning.
Therefore, repetition and distributed practice are critical to help your child remember information for school.
Multi-sensory learning strategies can also be a huge help. Make up songs, write multiplication facts in the sand, and draw the states and their capitols in chalk on the driveway.
Make learning meaningful. Help your child relate new information to what he or she already knows. This process is challenging, particularly with very rote information like spelling facts or multiplication tables. Use multiplication to bake a favorite chocolate chip cookie recipe by selecting a times table to work on and then adding in the chocolate chips in multiples of that times table.
Using a whiteboard, write the words in huge letters to increase gross motor activity while writing. Make funny songs or stories with spelling words, and act out the script you create over and over with your child taking the lead in a play.
When studying state government, visit your state capitol or watch a movie with characters that capture your child’s attention.
Go to the zoo to learn more about animals from Africa or check out a large and engaging picture book of animals at the library.
It may take a lot of creativity to come up with new learning strategies, and some books and articles are referenced in Learn More to help you with memory strategies.
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